Inspired by the many retarded comments doctors and many other losers say to women who want to get sterilized. What bugs me most is how a 20 something-year old who most definitely wants to be sterilized is told "She's too young" or "Doesn't know what she wants",or worse yet "You're a woman, you're supposed to want kids" yet nobody tells a pregnant teen or child the same shit eventhough most of them don't have the emotional/mental capability to care for a child. How the hell is an adult in her 20s and 30s too young to get sterilized yet a 16 or even a 12 year old isn't told she's too young to be a mom (WHICH OBVIOUSLY SHE IS PEOPLE) Bitch please, if a high schooler can be a mom without being reminded of her age and intelligence, whether she wants to or not,then why can't an adult woman choose NOT to procreate without hearing all this procreation crap from everyone? You wanna make kids, fine, pop out all the kids you want, but don't you Ever make a woman feel bad about wanting to be childfree, or act like she's clueless about it, you hear? You don't see me screaming at pregnant woman and girls for wanting to be moms, why can't you leave the CF women alone?
I was really lucky that my doctor didn't give me any trouble about getting my tubes tied. She just said "You don't want kids? Ok." and made me an appointment. Best doctor ever.
My mom had to be sterilized in her 30's due to a cervical cancer risk, but she wanted it soon after my brother was born. The nurse said to her, "What if your husband wants more kids?" My mom said, "He doesn't." then the nurse asked, "What if you remarry and your new husband wants kids?" My mom said, "Well he's on his own then because I am not having anymore." She had rough deliveries with both of us, why would she want more? Not to mention I have epilepsy and possibly aspurger's (Mild, no one ever said anything about it) and my brother has full blown aspurger's and he was a pain as a baby. Who would want more of that?
I totally support this.. I plan to get my uterus taken out which I've given thought to since I was 12 and to this very day want to get rid of it. A baby is not worth all that suffering..
God, can't believe people stupidity XD Forgive me for laughing about it, but people need to see that everyone choose something for a reason right? But is not their fault, someone makes them think that all women wants to have children. Maybe their parents even do that, because they don't believe in a different option than that. Need to teach people why is natural, seriously. And good meme of hypocrisy, I love it!
The doctor tried to push me toward alternative treatments, saying, "But you might change your mind!"
I assured him I wouldn't.
I was Childfree before by choice, and now it's a done deal and I couldn't be happier.
So I support this. I've known I never wanted to be a mother since I was old enough to understand the concept.
My mom had to be sterilized in her 30's due to a cervical cancer risk, but she wanted it soon after my brother was born. The nurse said to her, "What if your husband wants more kids?" My mom said, "He doesn't." then the nurse asked, "What if you remarry and your new husband wants kids?" My mom said, "Well he's on his own then because I am not having anymore." She had rough deliveries with both of us, why would she want more? Not to mention I have epilepsy and possibly aspurger's (Mild, no one ever said anything about it) and my brother has full blown aspurger's and he was a pain as a baby. Who would want more of that?
Forgive me for laughing about it, but people need to see that everyone choose something for a reason right?
But is not their fault, someone makes them think that all women wants to have children. Maybe their parents even do that, because they don't believe in a different option than that. Need to teach people why is natural, seriously. And good meme of hypocrisy, I love it!